When is the rsvp deadline?

We kindly ask that you RSVP by _____, 2026. Should you forget to RSVP, due to capacity restrictions we unfortunately will assume you are unable to make it.

(Jon’s version) Don’t forget or we’re subbing someone else in

what should i wear?

Please see our Attire page, as we detail the attire for each event as well as examples of outfit inspiration.

(Jon’s version) There’s an entire page on this that took me like 5 hrs to make because of all the photos Halle made me copy and paste.

Can I take photos during the ceremony?

We are having an unplugged ceremony, meaning that once you are seated, we ask that cameras and phones be put away and silenced. We want everyone to be fully present with us for the short period of time during the ceremony! This ensures our photographer to be able to capture the best moments, which we will absolutely share with you. After the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos and videos as you'd like! :)

(Jon’s version) Your picture is probably going to be bad. The professional photographer’s is going to be better. Don’t ruin their pictures.

Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

The welcome party will be indoors/outdoors at Villa Cipressi at their restaurant _____.

The wedding will mostly be outdoors. The ceremony will be held on the lawn overlooking the lake, and cocktail hour and dinner will also be held mostly outdoors - there will be access to an indoor section as well.

The pool party will also be outdoors, obviously. :)

Should it rain, we have a tent that will be installed that can accomodate everyone.

(Jon’s version) We are flying all the way to Italy to sit in a dark basement

Can i bring a date?

If your invitation was addressed to you and a guest, you are welcome to bring a date. If not, due to capacity restrictions, we ask that you do not bring a plus one.

(Jon’s version) No. Unless your date is Dua Lipa.

How do I get to and from the venue?

Please see our Events page. We will have transportation by boat to/from Varenna to the Wedding Venue on both the 25th and 26th. Any other early or late departures will need to be scheduled individually. The best way to get around is by taxi or boat taxi.

(Jon’s version) Entire page on this one too, Transportation. Be resourceful.

Can my kids come?

No - while we love your little ones, we kindly request attendance to be adults only. So please plan ahead for a babysitter, if possible! :)

(Jon’s version) Enjoy the break, time for mom & dad to party

Why Italy?

We chose Italy because we fell in love with it last year while traveling - and Halle always envisioned a romantic, elegant wedding abroad.

However, we completely understand that attending our destination wedding is a significant commitment of time and resources. Please know that there is absolutely no pressure or expectation for you to make the long journey. Your well-wishes, prayers, and support mean the world to us, regardless of your ability to attend.

(Jon’s version) Google image search: lake como

What is the weather like in italy this time of year?

The average temperature in Lake Como, Italy on September 25th is typically around 66°F. This is a mild temperature, with daytime highs often reaching 72°F and nighttime lows around 57°F. September is a good time to visit Lake Como, as the summer heat has cooled down, making it comfortable for sightseeing and outdoor activities with less crowds.

(Jon’s version) Pretty nice

what are some things to do in the area if i have an extra day to kill before or after the scheduled events?

(Jon’s version) There’s a big lake

do I need to give a gift?

We are so happy to share our special day with you. Your presence is the only and the best gift we could ask for! But if you insist, see our registry.

(Jon’s version) This wedding is going to hurt the bank account for a while. But that was our decision. Gift or no gift, we still love you.